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          We need to be careful to not raise another to the level of atop a pedestal, where we create an unwritten rule that causes them to feel they must be "on" at all times.  This can be very selfish on our part, for in so doing, we actually rob them of quality of life, of breath of acceptance of their "human condition" that can lead to longer lasting moments of peace.

          Compliments, acknowledgement of another's gifts and encouragement are beautiful praises we can exchange, but there is a fine line between loving, clear-visioned adoration and praises of idolization that stem from a deep need or void inside our own self.  One of the most healing gifts we can give is to let another not take themself too seriously allowing for more ease in recognition of imperfections -- where we can all enjoy great appreciation for the beauty of humility.  This bath water of humility can wash away so much negativity, fear resentment and pride to fill our pores with the essence of Love that is true.